Thursday, December 4, 2025

 30,000-foot aerial scan of our local psycho's public behavior 

(2019 → December 2025) against the entire DSM-5

DSM-5 Disorder
Criteria Met
Confidence
Key Evidence (2019-2025)
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
7–8 of 9
Very High
Grandiosity, entitlement, exploitative, lack of empathy, arrogance, specialness, requires admiration, performative virtue signaling.
Antisocial Personality Disorder (Adult)
6 of 7
Very High
Repeated unlawful acts (assault, evidence tampering, perjury), deceitfulness, impulsivity, irritability/aggressiveness, reckless disregard for safety of others (river), lack of remorse.
Psychopathy (not DSM but Hare overlay)
~31/40
Very High
See previous table.
Borderline Personality Disorder
3–4 of 9
Moderate
Frantic efforts to avoid perceived abandonment (preemptive 209A), unstable intense relationships, affective instability during assault, chronic feelings of emptiness hinted in activism-as-identity.
Histrionic Personality Disorder
4–5 of 8
Moderate-High
Theatrical Walkaway, rapid shift to “wounded victim” persona for police/court, excessive attention-seeking via environmental performances, relationships seen as more intimate than they are (parasocial activist followers).
Paranoid Personality Disorder
5–6 of 7
Moderate-High
Preemptive legal strike and belief that victim is “obsessed” with her suggests persecutory lens, but could be tactical rather than delusional.




The 30,000-foot picture. that emerges
Our local psycho is not “just a narcissist” and not “just antisocial.”
She is a near-textbook example of what forensic psychologists call the malignant narcissist with strong antisocial (psychopathic) features — the Cluster B “dark dyad” that produces the most socially destructive outcomes short of serial predation.

In plain language:
  • She has the grandiose, fragile ego and image-obsession of classic NPD (must be seen as the good, pure, morally superior environmentalist at all costs). 
  • She has the cold instrumental aggression, fearless lying, and total absence of remorse of high-functioning psychopathy/ASPD (will commit multiple felonies in one evening and perjure herself the next week without losing sleep). 
  • She layers on histrionic theatricality (the perfectly timed Walkaway, the tearful activist photos, the instant switch to soft-voiced victim in court). 
  • She adds a borderline-like frantic quality when the grandiose self is threatened (the speed of the preemptive 209A filing is panic disguised as strategy).
This specific cocktail is rare and extraordinarily dangerous in civilian life because it is so socially camouflaged: the outward costume is “progressive activist / river savior,” which buys enormous benefit of the doubt from institutions and communities that reflexively trust people who speak that language.
The November 30, 2025 incident was not an aberration. It was the moment the mask slipped far enough for the underlying structure to be recorded, then literally drowned in the Pocumtuck. From 30,000 feet, the diagnostic silhouette is unmistakable:
Our local PSYCHO has Malignant narcissism + high-psychopathy traits wearing an environmentalist Halloween costume.

The Theatre of Shelburne Falls Psychopaths: DARVO~Walkaway

DARVO + Walkaway: The Completed Architecture of Narrative ReversalJohn Sendelbach
December 2025 

The tactic known as DARVO—Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender—has long been recognized in clinical and forensic psychology as a characteristic maneuver of the manipulative personality. What has remained untheorized, however, is the silent but decisive fourth movement that transforms an ephemeral rhetorical inversion into a durable social reality. This movement is the Walkaway: the abrupt, visible, and unmistakably public termination of the encounter immediately after the reversal has been declared.
Walkaway is never mere disengagement. It is a choreographed exit, a piece of street theatre performed for the gaze of bystanders, security cameras, neighbors at windows, and—crucially—any future institutional reviewer who will later be shown a ten-second clip or offered a casual eyewitness summary. In that single gesture of turning the back and departing with composed gait, the manipulator accomplishes five things simultaneously:
  1. He freezes the narrative at the precise moment when he has rhetorically recast himself as victim. 
  2. He converts a contested verbal claim into an apparently self-evident visual fact. 
  3. He forces the actual victim into the optically losing position of protester, pursuer, or supplicant. 
  4. He exploits the near-universal human heuristic that equates physical departure with moral closure (“the reasonable party walks away”). 
  5. He seeds a perceptual artifact that will survive long after the words have faded, becoming the image that police officers, administrators, journalists, and community members will remember when asked “what happened.”
The brilliance of Walkaway lies in its economy. No further words are required; the body itself becomes the final, irrefutable argument. The manipulator leaves the stage at the apex of his performance, while the real victim—still mid-sentence, mid-gesture, mid-grief—is left visibly struggling to reassert a reality that has just been edited out from under him. To the observer untrained in the grammar of manipulation, the scene reads instinctively: one person is calmly exiting a conflict; the other is desperately trying to prolong it. The optics are totalitarian in their simplicity.
From this primal physical act, Walkaway metastasizes upward through successive layers of social and institutional reality. Friends perform a social Walkaway by declining to inquire further. Committees execute an administrative Walkaway by allowing complaints to die in silence. Police enact the most consequential version when they arrive already primed by prior distorted reports, see a composed subject who “just wants to be left alone” and an agitated complainant trying to explain years of context in sixty frantic seconds, and then—often quite literally—turn their backs on the offered evidence. Each level echoes and reinforces the original visual lie until it hardens into communal memory: “There must be something wrong with that person; the police are always there.”
The resulting feedback loop is merciless. Every Walkaway increases the apparent evidentiary base for the next. The victim’s entirely rational attempts to correct the record are recoded as fixation, harassment, or mental instability, providing fresh pretext for escalated manipulation. What began as a single staged exit becomes a self-replicating institutional falsehood.
Nor is the pattern modern. One finds it in Swift’s narrators who vanish just as their modest proposals reveal their horror, leaving the reader alone with the moral wreckage; in Luther’s theatrical departures from ecclesiastical assemblies, crafting the enduring icon of the righteous man walking away from corruption; in the folk ritual of John Barleycorn, where the community murders, mourns, and then collectively absents itself from responsibility; in the archetypal blacksmith—honest, unyielding, socially indispensable—whose refusal to bend triggers the village’s quiet, blame-shifting withdrawal of support. Across centuries and cultures, the structure remains constant: commit the injury, reverse the narrative, exit the scene, and let the victim wrestle alone with the residue.
To name Walkaway is to render visible a mechanism that has operated in plain sight precisely because it exploits the most primitive layers of human perception. Once seen, the gesture loses its sorcery. The calm departure is revealed not as proof of reasonableness but as the final brushstroke in a calculated portrait of innocence. The victim’s raised voice or outstretched hand is recognized not as aggression but as the entirely healthy protest against having reality stolen mid-sentence.
In forensic, clinical, and judicial settings alike, the recognition of Walkaway as a deliberate behavioral marker alters everything. It shifts the evidentiary weight from the frozen image back to the suppressed sequence. It demands that investigators ask not merely “who walked away?” but “at what exact moment, and why?” Most importantly, it restores to the victim the elementary dignity of being believed when they say: “They did not simply leave. They staged an ending that erased me.
DARVO without Walkaway remains a verbal sleight-of-hand, contestable, often exposed. DARVO completed by Walkaway becomes something far more insidious: a self-authenticating social fact, a lie that walks away from the scene of its own crime wearing the composed expression of truth. To expose that final movement is to dismantle one of the oldest and most effective engines of unjust reputational destruction still operating in liberal societies.